I’ve only ever talked about this with anyone other than Vince briefly and it was with my friend and her fiance at Christmas time and it brought tears. They made me feel “normal” ~ there’s that word again, dammit ~ and had only words of sympathy and encouragement.
I’m going to be attending a free public presentation at the Cancer Centre on February 13th. It’s called “Everything you ever thought you wanted to know about sex (and cancer) but were afraid to ask”.
That’s as close as I’ll come to posting anything remotely this private again in a public forum.